Mike interviews Agnesia Agrella.
Here’s the deal: money is energy. It doesn’t dictate happiness, but it opens doors to options. And in life, options give us the power to live freely. Agnesia’s approach to money? Bold, unapologetic, and wholly rooted in practicality. She doesn’t just preach about numbers; she dives into the mindsets that drive financial success and those that hold people back. Her message? Turn that fear into excitement, embrace the unknown, and—above all—take ownership of your financial journey.
One of the biggest takeaways from our conversation was this idea of shifting fear into excitement. Agnesia believes many people get trapped in their own heads because they fear what they don’t know. And let’s be honest—most people fear money simply because they don’t understand it. They hear “investment,” and they can only picture the risks. They hear “budget,” and they think it’s about restriction. But here’s what Agnesia says: turn fear into excitement and approach the unknown with curiosity.
She shared that when people are willing to test things out, to take a small step into the unfamiliar, that’s where real change happens. It’s about building a muscle for the unknown. Try something small with your money—see what happens, learn from it, and let the journey unfold. Agnesia considers this a mindset for money and life itself. When we approach fear as something to get excited about, the unknown becomes a playground rather than a prison.
And this is where a big part of her book’s magic lies. Mind Your Own Business isn’t just another financial guide telling you to “save more, spend less.” It’s about developing the kind of self-assurance and curiosity that makes money less intimidating. Because let’s be honest: if you want financial freedom, you must start with financial confidence.
Money itself won’t bring happiness, but having money gives you options. Options provide you with control. And control brings you freedom. It’s simple, right? But for Agnesia, this point is essential. She breaks down the idea that when we refuse to talk about money or resist thinking about it, we push freedom further away.
“Start reading about money, start listening to people who have it, and stop giving power to those who don’t,” she says. That might sound harsh, but let’s face it—advice from people without financial success can often be like taking direction from someone who’s never been where you want to go. Do you want financial freedom? Surround yourself with people who are already there, who understand the ins and outs, and start soaking up their mindset.
Agnesia’s advice here isn’t just about following the right voices. It’s about shifting your thoughts about yourself and your relationship with money. To her, money isn’t just numbers on a spreadsheet; it’s energy. And if you want that energy to flow your way, you’ve got to be open to it. Think, believe, and get yourself into rooms where money is a natural part of the conversation.
And here’s where Agnesia really flips the script: if you’re struggling to find meaning or motivation, step back and ask, “How can I serve?” Sometimes, we lose perspective when we’re too focused on our problems. But when we shift that focus outward, incredible things start to happen.
She shared a simple but powerful story about clearing an obstacle for a worker cleaning the pavement. It was a small act, but it made the man’s job more accessible, and he gave her a smile that was worth a million bucks. In these moments of service, we remember that sharing isn’t just about helping others; it’s a way of getting out of our heads and rediscovering purpose. “If you don’t want to talk about money, then go find a way to serve,” she said.
Agnesia calls this “taking action to make a difference” without expecting anything back. And let me tell you—this is powerful. When we focus on lifting others, we often lift ourselves. It’s an unexpected byproduct of service: sometimes, the more we give, the more we gain.
I’ve talked with many people about money, freedom, and success, but Agnesia’s perspective is fresh. She isn’t here to tell you how to build wealth just for wealth’s sake. Instead, she’s about leveraging money to create the life you want—a life of options, impact, and fun.
So here’s the takeaway: Serve. Embrace the unknown. Get into rooms where money is a high-level conversation. And remember, if you want to change your life, it starts with changing how you think about money. Because, as Agnesia says, there’s a thrill in not knowing what’s next but pushing forward anyway—that’s where freedom lives.
Mike Fallat, aka The BookMan, is the owner of Dreamstarters Publishing and the Million Dollar Book Agency. They have helped 300+ entrepreneurs become bestselling authors. His goal is to help 1,000 entrepreneurs publish books and teach them how to use their books as a gateway to generating 7-figures.
Visit website for more information: https://www.milliondollarbookagency.com/
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